Sunday, March 23, 2014

A German in a Thai World


I have really embraced the way my German heritage plays out in my life. When I lived in Germany previously, I started to see my values of order, cleanliness, promptness, and country living expressed in their native context. It is easy for me to operate under the belief that there is a “right” way to do everything and that it is best to help others learn how to do things the “right” way. This “right” way seemed to come rather naturally in Germany.

Then I moved to Thailand. Here I have learned to run red lights, as it is actually the safer course of
Thai Values Sign
action (I forgot I wasn’t in Thailand over Christmas and tried this practice in Huntington Beach, not a good choice). Here I talked myself out of a ticket for driving my truck in the left lane. Here I am chronically late. Here I have learned to avoid the direct approach when I have something to communicate to a Thai friend. The highest values are keeping the peace, going with the flow, and holding things loosely. This is a little different from Germany.

The Thai values come less naturally to me. I don’t blend in here, for external and internal reasons. However, I have seen the benefit of introducing some of these Thai cultural values into my German, type-A life. There are times to value order and there are times to value chaos. Sometimes it is OK to run a red light and other times it is best to stop. Keeping the conversation going, rather than running off to complete the next thing on my to-do list is sometimes the better choice.

The values I have discovered in Thailand have really brought some balance to my German tendencies. I am trying to navigate when it is good to live as a German and when it is good to live as a Thai. What I am really discovering is there are traits to value and express in any culture, especially those values that reflect God’s Kingdom culture. These are the values I should embody faithfully. There may be times to act like a German and there may be times to act like a Thai, but the best cultural values I could live out are the Kingdom culture ones.

Matthew 6:33, “But seek first his Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

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